Note: This article is referring to occasional, manageable anxiety. If you
feel anxious all the time, or if your anxiety is out of proportion to a given situation, you should talk to a guidance counsellor or a psychologist for additional help.
Like most Girl Guides, you are probably pretty busy. Between school and homework, afterschool activities, and Guiding, you have a lot of details to remember and you most likely try to do a lot of different things at once – studying, texting, and planning, all while doing an activity.
Switching your attention from one thing to another, going back and forth between things that are going to happen, things that have happened and the thing that is going on now can sometimes leave you feeling frazzled and anxious.
Anxiety is most likely to occur in those times when you are concerned about the past or the future and forgetting to focus on right now. That lack of focus often prevents you from taking action in the present. Then, those anxious feelings make your body react like it is in danger: your muscles tighten; your breathing is shallow; and your heart races.
To calm down, you need to let your body know that everything will be okay.
Once your body can relax, your mind will usually follow.
These four tips should help you deal with any anxiety you are feeling right now, and help you to keep it under control in the future.
When you are freaking out, you are probably breathing shallowly – just in your chest. Try breathing a full breath: Fill up your belly, then your chest, and release it the same way. Imagine the oxygen spreading throughout your body and bringing a feeling of calm.
You can also calm yourself by borrowing a yoga technique called Nadi Shodhan Pranayama, which helps still the mind by focusing attention on the breath.
Remember your body
Try doing a small, repetitive physical action. Wiggling your toes or your fingers, stretching your neck, or even thinking about a sensation – how your pants feel against your knees, how your toes feel in your socks – can bring your thoughts out of the anxiety spiral.
Regular exercise can also help reduce anxiety, so find ways to get moving whenever you can.
You can’t be anxious and relaxed at the same time, so if you can identify the place where your body is holding the tension (your jaw, your hands, your leg muscles) and choose to relax them, that will help a lot.
You may also want to try a progressive relaxation exercise like the one in this video that teaches your to relax each of your muscles in turn.
Prepare in Advance
If you are anxious about a future situation, walk yourself through it in advance. Imagine the things you have to do, how you will do them and how you will handle it if things go wrong. Remind yourself of times when you have done similar things and they have turned out just fine.
You can also reduce your anxiety around exams and presentations by making sure that you plan as much time as you can for reviewing the material in the way that makes the most sense for you.
Anxiety is a normal part of life, it can help us recognize when the things we are doing are important to us. Luckily, as Guides, you are already doing two of the important things that experts recommend to reduce anxiety: volunteering and spending time in nature, so you are already on the way to feeling better.
If anxiety still creeps up on you, then remembering to breathe, to connect to your body, to practice relaxation, and to prepare in advance, will help you to manage those feelings.
For some more tips on reducing anxiety please see: ‘5 Ways to Deal with Anxiety’ from KidsHealth.org
By guest blogger Christine Hennebury. Christine is a writer, storyteller and life coach who lives in Newfoundland and Labrador, helping people feel a little better right now is one of her favourite things to do.
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