A Silent Meeting

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Bullying Awareness Week is November 12 – 18.

We loved this post by guest blogger and Guider Melissa, and are sharing it on this day because this type of inclusive Unit activity is aligned with anti-bullying teachings.

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One meeting a year in our Brownie Unit, there is no singing. There is no chatting, no talking about the challenge we are working on, no asking each other to pass the markers or the glue.

It looks like a Brownie meeting, but it doesn’t sound like one. It doesn’t really sound like much at all.

This is our Silent Meeting. There is no talking, but there is a lot of learning. At this meeting, we help girls develop teamwork, problem solving and communication skills through silent activities.

Silent Meetings are about building cooperation and collaboration, but they are also about diversity. By trying to express themselves without talking, girls learn that oral language is not the only way to communicate.

We want our girls to grow up as strong communicators. But we also want them to grow up as strong listeners, listeners who engage with those who don’t communicate in the ways that are most familiar to us. Silent Meetings can help girls learn that it doesn’t matter if someone signs, or talks or uses a speech production device – that person is worth listening to.

Helping girls understand that what they have to say is valuable no matter how they say it is what Guiding is all about. Maybe one meeting spent in silence is the best way to communicate that.

Here are some of the Silent Meeting activities we’ve done:

  • Without talking, have the girls put themselves in alphabetical order, or in order by birth date or height.
  • Play charades.
  • Perform and rehearse silent skits.
  • Put the girls in pairs. One partner has a series of instructions. She needs to communicate those instructions to her partner without talking or writing.
  • Have a puzzle treasure hunt. Before the meeting, write down a series of words, each on a different colours of paper. Cut out each letter and hide it in your meeting place. Make sure there is one letter per girl. Each girl finds one letter, finds the other girls with the same colour paper and determines the word their letters spell, all without talking.
  • Learn the promise in American Sign Language (ASL).
  • Communicate messages through communication boards that use symbols or letters.

Guest blogger Melissa Moor

By guest blogger Melissa. Melissa is a Queen’s University student and a Guider with the  5th Ottawa Brownies, 17th Kingston Guides, 17th Kingston Pathfinders. Melissa has also written previous posts for Girl Guides of Canada’s blog: Using Children’s Books in Meetings, It’s Not a Box!, One Plus One Equals Brownie MathThe World Girls Want for the(ir) Future, Young Women’s World Forum 2011: Wrap-up from Switzerland, and was one of our reviewers for two books from our adult book club: Persuasion, and Everything We Ever Wanted.

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11 Responses to A Silent Meeting

  1. trexiness says:

    Very cool ideas …
    Is it just the girls not speaking, are instructions given out loud, do they prepare their skits talking?

    • Anonymous says:

      Thanks! The Guiders do speak during this meeting to give instructions (we weren’t sure we could manage the group very well with out speaking) but the girls prepare their skits without talking.
      – Melissa

  2. Jenna says:

    This is inspired. I want to try it but I’m a little nervous because I’m a Guider for a Spark unit. Some instructions would need to be given in pictograms instead of written words. Challenging for sure.

    • Melissa Moor says:

      Thanks! The Guiders usually do get to talk during our Silent meeting so that we can give directions effectively ( I agree – giving directions entirely in written format would be quite challenging, especially for Sparks). I hope that you can try some of these activities with your Unit!

  3. Natasha says:

    What a fantastic idea. Going to be trying this tonight with my Pathfinders.

  4. LM says:

    Inspired by this post we’re having a silent meeting tonight! I seen it first and shared it with my Brown Owl who loved it! We’re also earning the No Talking part of the Key To The Arts, and the I Can Be interest badge. Love the post, thanks!

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  7. JM says:

    We are planning to try this for Bullying Awareness Week in Novemeber. I was wondering what Brownie program pieces you think it covers?

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